5They Share A Similar Belief Structure As You: Having the same or similar beliefs on morality, sex, death, and church are a must. These are parts of our core character. If they have a radically different or opposing outlook, then there will be issues. You both don’t have to agree on every little detail, in fact the differences should be mutually acknowledged and respected. There should never be a converting stage of your relationship unless, the other person genuinely feels that the change would truly be better for them.